I ordered this lovely dress and like the shape etc but although it fits well on the waist and hips, it's far too loose up top and just doesn't fit me properly. I read that VW cuts for curves, so is it worth trying a different style or should I just look elsewhere? Is there anywhere that makes similar styles but cuts more for pears than hourglasses? It's for a special occasion my wedding...we're eloping so it's no big deal but it is really and I want to look amazing but not bridal HELP.