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SIl's wedding in July. I'm not very glanourois

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parrotonmyshoulder · 03/04/2016 21:00

The women of the family are very glamorous. I don't fit in with my usual scruffy look! They dress up for Sunday lunch, evenings at each other's houses and shopping.

A new dress for me is an event and, God, buying new shoes! Ugh!

However, I am prepared to make the effort, of course!

I suit maxi dresses (I think). The last dress I bought was a navy maxi for a ball and it was lovely. Maxi dresses mean no worrying about legs (not very shapely) and less worry about footwear (terribly ugly feet and can only manage low heels).

I'm 5'6", size 8, dark hair (pixie), 'winter' colouring (HOC). My best colours are raspberry, dark red/ burgundy, royal blue, navy, charcoal.

Budget for dress under £100. If shoes can be worn other than at the wedding then all the better.

Any ideas? Thanks.

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parrotonmyshoulder · 03/04/2016 21:00

Title should say 'glamorous'!

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Laska5772 · 03/04/2016 21:09

Monsoon might be worth looking at ?
heres one in navy

AuntieMaggie · 03/04/2016 21:41

what about asos?

this is nice

MrsLettuce · 03/04/2016 22:01

too glam?
again?
still too much?

parrotonmyshoulder · 03/04/2016 22:03

I like all those linked to so far. But do they look right for a wedding? Not too ball gowny?

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MrsLettuce · 03/04/2016 22:11

It's hard to know! Is there a dress code? You just said 'glamourous'!

something along the lines of this would be more typically weddingy but it's not what I'd call glam. Nice though.

Louise43210 · 03/04/2016 22:12

No, they're fine :-). I like the Mango and Monsoon ones. (You sound sweetly like my family who shudder at the idea of dressing up and even consider jeans a smart option as usually joggers are the norm).

Milzilla · 03/04/2016 22:17

Look up Virgos Lounge on asos!

minipie · 03/04/2016 22:17

Have a look at Chi chi clothing - loads of wedding guest type dresses, mostly knee length or maxi so good for non fab legs. John Lewis stock some but their own website has lots more styles.

Laska5772 · 03/04/2016 22:21

I do think shorter legnth would be better for a July wedding. Do you think you could get the legs out a bit? with neutral tights , a contrast pasmina or cardi ( maybe in raspberrry and navy block heels this would look good
or this
If you want a more 'casual' maxi how about this?

Laska5772 · 03/04/2016 22:24

sorry this was the second one I meant to link to

parrotonmyshoulder · 04/04/2016 00:08

Thanks. I'll browse those links properly tomorrow. No dress code, Mrs Lettuce. I just meant that the rest of the family are very glamorous. I don't want to look dull!

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readyforno2 · 04/04/2016 00:47

The last dress Mrs posted is gorgeous.

parrotonmyshoulder · 04/04/2016 21:39

Now I'm starting to worry that a maxi would look like I'm pretending to be a bridesmaid! Especially in the colours I like!

Maybe I need to brave the legs thing after all.

I suit fitted shorter dresses - look like a little girl dressing up if I try skater dresses or flared things.

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MrsLettuce · 04/04/2016 21:46

A shorter dress would make it a lot easier to do glam without being totally OTT

this is an amazing dress. It's over budget but you might have black shoes already so I'm linking anyway.

MrsLettuce · 04/04/2016 21:49

Oh, yeah, forgot about the whole 'colours' thing. Sorry. Hmm. Do you prefer print or block colour?

ChopOrNot · 04/04/2016 21:58

I love, love, love this www.anthropologie.com/uk/en/product/clothing-dresses/7130089937370.jsp#/

MrsLettuce · 04/04/2016 22:00

Oh that's great Chop! I fear we're on a No Black rule though.

ChopOrNot · 04/04/2016 22:14

Blue/White top though...

MrsLettuce · 04/04/2016 22:17

Ah, have got me screen light turned down low for a headache. Didn't notice Blush TBH I preferred it monochrome.

parrotonmyshoulder · 04/04/2016 22:20

Oh I really like those last two! I don't think I can have black though.
Thanks for trying!

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Donthate · 04/04/2016 22:28

This is lovely. I'll look for shoes

ScarlettDarling · 04/04/2016 22:32

this dress in navy blue is very glamorous and a total bargain in the sale!

ScarlettDarling · 04/04/2016 22:36

Here's a picture of it.

SIl's wedding in July. I'm not very glanourois
Wotshudwehave4T · 04/04/2016 22:42

Go to Debenhams to see a personal shopper, free and no obligation to buy anything. All they need is your budget, what type of thing/event you have in mind, sit back in your own changing room in a comfy seat, they supply the cuppas and mags for you to relax with while they go round the shop and present you with a rail full of things to try, plus shoes and accessories- it's brill