Both style and beauty are alien to me, so forgive me if this is the wrong place to ask. My "handbag" at the moment is a 10l biking backpack. If I take my camera out then I use a 20l hiking backpack, practical as I can zip a separator in and have camera in the top half, get everything else out from the access pocket in the bottom half. But...I'm a bit fed up of carrying an obviously hiking backpack around all the time, it's quite broad and triangular shaped (doesn't fit easily under a plane seat and we're doing an overnight trip in the summer). I want something that looks (more) like a normal bag!
I need to keep it backpack style. Have 2 DC, one with ASD, the other a tree climber so invariably need both hands free a lot of the time.