Curling tong / wand that actually helps hold the curl for longer than it takes for me to leave the house?

[Chicinwellies]

Or is it all about the styling products. I have fine long blonde hair and would love to curl to a loose curl/Beachy wave and for it to last. All day.

Have you seen the headband technique ? You will need to put some products in it and it's better with dirty hair . It may just be the texture of your hair that means it falls out quickly .