Need Advice on Eyeshadow and tights

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Right SAHM of 2 is going to dh work do first time in fivre years black tie have a purple velvet dress dress but unsure on the following

1. Grey and pale eyeshadow or dark and light purple to match dress or too much purple?

1. Black tights or skin coloured ones

god its been ages since i went out looking forward to it but dont wan tto look over or under done!, thanks

1. pale shadows
2. what colour are shoes?

black shoes can wear stappy - but might be cold or closed toe both heels

pale if strappy, black with closed toes, imo have a lovely time

thanks its so sad isnt it but its like rl where you would ask you r friends when you got ready

have yourself a nice glass of wine while you're getting ready

Here's my thoughts

pale shadow if it's "smoky"

hose - can do black if very sheer otherwise nude

closed toes