I have thick, curly hair, which will go frizzy given half the chance. Up until a couple of years ago it was long, but I got fed up with the frizz and wanted a change so I had it cut much shorter. TBH I've never been happy with it since. It covers about half my ears and I try to define the curl with some frizz ease but I still feel a bit frumpy (am in my mid 40s). I don't really know what I want to do maybe a bit shorter, maybe a bit longer. Any suggestions gratefully received.