And for the first time in years .. I finally have some jeans that look good and are comfortable without being really baggy 
I hate the way that skinny jeans cling to mycalves, and I hate the fact that 'straight' jeans just too big on the calf , And that boyfriend jeans are justs wrong on me.. (too baggy on bum and thigh, and hated the rips ). and I hate thewaythat my Dh looks good in jeans and i dont because mens jeans just seem to be so much better cut
So after several frustrating weeks looking for the new jeans I needed, my search has been solved by a lucky hanger miss-sizing accident in TKmaxx,.....
and ive now bought and love...
..Indigo denim Skinny jeans, but two sizes too big!! (and they are so great!)
I am a 12 but have bought a 16!! They fit like boyfriends but have nice slim leg and calf and are non-baggy / non-clingy / non-ripped on the leg..
Yes im wearing them a bit low.(but that allows for a turn up) . I think I might stick a dart in the waist to make it a bit smaller , but then maybe not , they are fine with a belt ..
I have tried Next relaxed skinnies before , they are ok , but these are definately better .. (and were only £14.99!)
Why didnt I think of this before?..
(now I only have to get over my ridiculous 'lable size' vanity issue.. its ok.. its just a lable isnt it? ..)