On paper, I'm not huge. I'm a size 12-14 and 5'4". Currently dieting with a stone and a half to lose, but clearly a 12-14 is not massive. However, I have huge boobs, huge shoulders and fat arms. I am hourglass shaped. Everything I put on makes me feel like this enormous hulking rugby player in womens clothing at the moment. Can anybody suggest anything that might diminish my frame to look at until the weight is lost?