I've had a couple of consultations with a lovely hairdresser about sorting out my colour- brassy gingery chin length ends, dark roots with a lot of grey. She's recommended that I take it a shade darker towards my natural colour and then add blonde sections underneath/few highlights to start to break things up as I've expressed an interest in going lighter generally in the future as the grey isn't going to get any better. I've booked in and braved myself for the £100 bill. However part of me just wants to lop it all off and do something drastic.... This however is always my hair thought and I do tend to opt for unflattering/unnatural which I've neither the face nor figure for..... Do I take her advice or do I think I know best and do something completely different.... For context I'm emerging from the dark days of having tiny babies, generally trying to find my style, lose weight etc.....counsel me!