What can older brides wear to their tasteful, low-key weddings?

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Surely something exists between bridal gowns in ivory and mother-of-the-bride three-piece outfits in lilac lace?

Are you wanting a dress? Suit? not in white/ivory? What time of year?

What age/body shape/size are you?

something like this?
this is nude colour if you have the figure
pale green
chi chi have some nice lace dresses
understated
bit different
chi chi again
bargain if you fancy colour
elegant if you are tall
pretty
if you have the legs
not so sure
love this one
stand out
like it if you're tall
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another full length
monsoon
have a load of nice subtle dresses

Two friends getting married this spring. Both second time around. One is in her late 40s the other in her early 50s. Both are having small civil ceremonies. Neither can begin to decide what to wear and are finding it really difficult.

hellsbellsmelons - there are some lovely things on your list. Thanks so much.

I suggested a shift dress with a beautiful heavy silk coat, cut so that it is divine. But I don't think such a thing exists.

Find a dressmaker, get some beautiful material and have a long dress and coat made?