I'd be careful with lavender as it can also be an irritant to the skin.
My current routine-
Cleansers
Morning I use Oskia Rejuvenating cleanser. I love it, smells amazing, great at cleansing and brightening the skin
Evening I use Ultrabland by Lush. Very basic but lovely cleanser, takes off every bit of make up, mascara and anything else. I double cleanse at night as I wear a lot of makeup.
Another on I alternate with is Body Shop chamomile cleanser which is supposedly a dupe for Take the Day off Balm. This is a balm that works into an oily texture once on the skin. Great for taking off heavy eye makeup and is quite light and has good slip for doing a wee massage.
TonersI use first aid beauty exfoliating pads as a very mild exfoliating tone. At night time i step it up a notch and use Bravura Calendula toner (which is stronger) and a few times a week I use Alpha H.
I just keep an eye on my skin to decide which level of exfoliating toner I use. If it feels a bit too oily (as if it's been overstimulated) then I use the mildest one or I leave it out for an evening.
I then use Lush Rose Water spray after it. Two scoots of that and let it settle.
Serums- I use Clinique serum for pigmentation, I can't remember the name of it at present.
AND
Hydraluron(serum not the moisture jelly) by indeed Labs (you get it in boots and it's on offer just now I think)This is a godsend. I love it. It makes my skin really hydrated.
Moisturisers
I alternate between Hydraluron Jelly which is okay but I won't be repurchasing as I don't think it's worth the money. Bought on offer but it's a basic moisturiser. It's very light in texture and absorbs easily so I like that.
Elemis Pro Collagen night cream- again I like it but bought it on offer and i'm not sure if it's worth the money
Organic Surge Daily Moisturiser. I really like this one, it's cheap, does the job and it's gentle.
Vichy Normaderm Night (?)- I really like this too. My skin feels moisturised yet not greasy in the morning.
Facial Oil About once a week I use Sanctuary Spa secret therapist facial oil after my routine and go to sleep in it.
This seems like a tremendous of products but I just started with cleanser, toner, hydraluron and moisturiser.