What is suitable? Got the church bit a 3pm, 4 cousre meal and dancing to follow from 6pm with some mooching in the middle )( or running atround after my 3 kids who will be in full bridesmaid / pageboy attire. Haven't had to wear a cocktail dress for yrs amnd need to get it right. Instructed that more glam, evening-y wear would be appropriate. Would you go strapless with a shrug on, or thin spaghetti straps, or skrit and top? I'm 36, dark bob and dark eyes. Apple shape - tummy not best feature and not great waist. Decent legs and bum. Size 12 on average, sometimes 10 top cos no boobs. Have up to £200 for shoes and outfit (I think). Gojng shoppingin London on Sat with sis and mum (which if any of you posting on SN site will know will be a welcome break!)Thanks!