I'm fed up with my hair, I'm 32 and I have to dye it a lot to cover the grey, this has caused it to go dry. At the moment it is shoulder length but I am tempted to go really short. I find it hard to find a hair cut that works as my hair is slightly wavy and never sits right, if I straighten it it makes it worse and it looks like straw 
. So I leave it long and find a product to make it less dry? If so what product? Or do I go really short? Last time I had it short I got called 'sir' in a shop 
, I'm not very feminine as I don't really wear make up.