I have a size 14 waist and size 16 hips. I have a very high waist.
I can rarely find trousers to fit me. I try on a size 14 and I either cannot get the trousers over my hips or I get them over my hips but they don't do up as high as my waist is, so I cannot do them up.
If I wear a size 16, I get them over my hips and they gape massively around my waist. A belt doesn't help.
I've tried low-wasited trousers so I'm buying a size 16 that ends at my hips, but they don't stay up and are generally too big.
I mostly need casual trousers as I am a SAHM - I don't mind buying more expensive jeans trousers if they actually fit me and they're classic enough to live in my wardrobe for a few years.
Please help if you can.