Where can I find an affordable but also tasteful flower headressy thing (like a wreath around the head)? i am going to be super preggers for a wedding and am a hideous whale, would like to distract using a head piece essentially. Also do we think if I did wear one (obviously not elaborate, just little flowers) will it look a bit like I am trying to be the bride?i know some brides wear them these days. My dress will obviously look nothing like a wedding dress but conscious maybe flowers in the hair are reserved for bridal party?