thanks so much for all the replies.
i may go for the bracelet - with gift receipt if i don't find anything that feels spot on.
don't have the kind of relationship to take her shopping but will make sure its something readily swappable as would hate idea of it not being worn.
Agree about both the bee and name necklaces being a bit marmite so maybe too risky. I have always wanted the bumblebee myself but i think you lot have put me off now!
agree with all the Tiffany, Links, Pandora types suggestions but I think I need to go at least a little off the beaten track as she will definitely already have some of those types already. (her mother wears a Cartier watch and a diamond the size of my fingernails.. and I am not in this league!)
A friend mentioned this website too.
www.tinalilienthal.com/shop
i quite like the star bracelet.
Also like lots on Follie Folli - is this quite a young brand would you say?
am enjoying this can you tell?! such a fun thing to be shopping for.