I really struggle with finding a lipstick that's not too orange but I've found a great one. And it's a cheapo! Rimmel Moisture Renew in Diva Lady. Lovely colour, not at all drying and about six quid
Maybe not the most long-lasting colour ever but it does ok if I use a red lipliner underneath (I use a No7 one), apply, blot, then apply again
I finally understand the fuss about red lipstick!