Have a date with a younger man. Possibly going to hip hop club. God help me!

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Converse and jeans aren't going to cut it, are they?
I last went to this sort of place ten years ago.

I'm looking forward to it, but what do sexy young things wear these days?

Some great ideas here www.buzzfeed.com/tanyachen/important-90s-hip-hop-fashion-trends-you-might-have-forgo?s=mobile

An impertinent question but how old are you? Also do you have any interest in hip hop?

I'm 33 but look younger.
I'm a size 16.

Yes I do. More into back-pack hip-hop tbh.

I think the hip hop thing is a red herring though. It's the going to funky bars thing that's throwing me!

What's the age gap? Is this a first date?

Are you going clubbing, ie dancing until 2am, or to a gig?!

Clubbing.
Yes first date.
Quiet stuff too.
He's just turned 29.

Clubbing for a first date? Are you mad?

Well, I think that that's no age gap at all, so that wouldn't even cross my mind. Going to a club, if I wasn't keen on that any more, would probably give me some angst. Going to a club spontaneously, after a good meal/drink/whatever might feel different, planning to go = less so. What do you want to do on a first date?

I know!!!
Well he says he's going to show me the establishments around his home town.
Clubbing sounds horrid, but he's sooooo pretty.

No age gap at all!

I am 33 and dh is 26 :) and before I met him I dated a 20 year old when I was 28....

You'll be fine. Grab yourself a load of stuff from asos or top shop and shake your stuff!

I just want to go for drinks.
But I live in the sticks and don't get out much, so drinks involve jeans and wellies.

I think I might need A Dress that isn't a frumpy wrap style. And shoes that aren't le chameau ffs.

Oh god - I'd only go clubbing with friends or at least in a group!

Sorry, not helpful!

I definitely think you'll need a dress or very dressy jeans with killer heels!

Dressy jeans?

Personally I wouldn't go too far out of your usual style for a date. How happy are you with your legs and what's your boobage like? I reckon I'd go for a fitted bodycon-ish dress, maybe with leggings and low-heel shoeboots (that won't hurt after half an hour). Have a look on asos to see how they style up their dresses.

You know like a really good colour, skinny jeans!

I have black skinnies which are great for dressing up!

Got them from (I think) Asos.

You won't need heels at a hip hop club IMO. Converse, jeans & a funky top. Or tights, shorts and a top. Shoe boots would be a good idea too. Top Shop or All Saints.

I have black skinnies!

I have a tight baujken dress. I also have a big belly.

Will look for shoe boots.
I don't think I can do "killer" heels!

Yes shoe boots are a happy medium I think!