I'm nearly 43 & I think i need to go for a shorter style now but I have no clue. My hair is currently about 2 inches below my shoulder. It's thick, fine & has a bit of a wave. I find it hard to control or style, partly because I'm rubbish at styling it & also because of lack of time. My DH likes it long & I like having some different options for how to have it but I think it might be starting to look at bit ridiculous now. I don't have a pretty face or delicate features so don't think very short hair would work. I need to look professional for work. What can I do that isn't going to make me look dull & middle aged?