This is a fabulous dress I pickup that might help out fellow apples. It is jersey but not sheer, has a bit of elastication but isn't empire or restrictive. Doesn't resemble maternity wear but is flatttering around the middle. Worth a shot.
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I bought a bird print snood to go with it and it goes well.
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Their tights are good this year too- not droopy or digging in around the waistband.