Oh and I am on the large side 
. Size 16, 5ft 4, big bum and thighs, big boobs, big tummy, smaller waist and chunky arms. I can't think of anything I have that is suitable. I have some nice black shoe boots that have a sparkly heel. Anything that could go with that? Any kind of dress that is fitted on the bottom half won't fit as my top half is smaller. Help!