What's the deal nowadays for buttonhole flowers for weddings for women?

[theladylovescupcakes]

I know that men still usually have a flower in their button hole, but what's done nowadays for women? Is it still the norm to have a flower pinned on or not? And which side for men and women? Thanks. not leaving it late at all as wedding is on Saturday

Typically mothers will have a corsage like this pinned to their dress or on their bag or hat.

I usually pin to the left.

Last wedding I went to where I gave a reading I had a wrist corsage.