T o kindly ask you to pick between these 2 dresses for a big party next week

[JimbobChooChoo]

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or this

www.ebay.co.uk/itm/BN-By-Malene-Birger-Romantic-Nude-Beige-Silk-Top-Skirt-Suit-Dress-UK10-12-38-/321132658754?pt=UK_Women_s_Dresses&hash=item4ac4ff8042

Thankyou and I hope the links work!

YABU-for posting this here when there is a style and beauty section. Get yourself over there for some good advice-neither of those dresses will do anything for your figure-you are far too booby for the 2nd one.

God no to the first one now I have seen it on the model.

And the second one, you would have to be stick thin, petite and probably in your twenties to pull off what looks like an ingenue dress.

www.lipsy.co.uk/store/lace/lipsy-all-over-lace-shift-dress/product-is-DR06846_002

Just to be an annoying pain(and yes I should have posted on S and B didn't this little number ^

I'm in my late 20's but not stick thin (love and too much)

Sorry-typo above.

Meant didn't really know about Style and Beauty section but glad I now do

YABU to post this in AIBU.

That said, the second one. The third one looks like something an 18 yo would wear to marry one of The Stones.

The first one. Second will be very unreliable.

The first one looks like money and class, the second looks like New Look.

2nd one. It's lovely.

Oh, yeah, OP! The Lipsy dress is lovely! Sexy while classy, and the lace neckline should flatter your boobage without looking desperate. Good find :)

first one a joke. Fashion victim.

second one better IF you have suitable underwear, unlike the model. Bit of a sack of spuds job though.

I agree with Crumbledwalnuts, though, the first dress looks "like money". What sort of impression do you wish to create, Jimbob?

1st one. Simple clean and elegant. Second looks more regular, seen lots of dresses round like that, nothing special about it.

First one a joke!! Its a plain ish dress FFS. Fashion victim! I have seen more dresses that scream fashion victim than a simple clean dress.

U am going too be too bold, the first one is horrible. I quite like the second, it is very chic, I would love it for myself [grinI

Lipsy one is horrible too-sorry but it looks cheap and nasty. You sound like you have a lovely figure so keep looking-over on s&b!

First one, but ditch the belt the model is wearing, it ruins it.

Oh dear, Ashoe, I need to hone my ideas about 'classy'

Yes ditch belt on 1st one. Do you want to blend in or stand out.
Loads of sales on at mo am sure you can do much better.
Do not like Lispey agree it looks cheap.

I agree, if you've got large boobs, the 2nd one wouldn't do you any favours, I think you've got to be a bit flatter of chest for that sort of dress to suit you

I liked the Lipsy one from the front, but I really don't like the back with the gap

Lipsy is crap. Don't shop there.

2nd one.

I didn't like the first one straight away but it's grown on me.

Like the third but not in the colours offered.

I don't like any of them sorry

The first one looks like something the queen mother would have worn.

The second one is a bit meh tbh, nothing special about it.

The third one is very 90's.

You're a size 12 in your twenties, there's much better dresses out there!

The second one is the first link a mistake?