I thought I would fall into the right criteria. I'm 5ft 9 so they don't swamp me. However I've also put weight on, and am rather norky. I have never found one that is entirely flattering. I've tried all the styles. The worst for me is the nipped in (elasticated) waist, or the bandeau bodice, with my boobs, I just look like a shelf with a marquee hanging off it.. Most flattering is a crossover style bodice / v-neckline. But even then, it's not great. Should I give up?