and 
I have posted a few whiny and needy threads on here and you've all been fab. I'm a short fat apple and I've finally braved the shops enough to know what I suit and I sorted my make up. And my eyebrows thanks to the tweezerman 
I saw myself today - shift dress, heels, make up done and actually thought I looked not half bad.
Which is a vast improvement on 3 months ago. So, again, thank you.