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I have got bright red lipstick on. Whu do I feel (and probably look) like a complete dickhead?

115 replies

GetOrf · 26/01/2013 13:28

I never normally wear lipstick (gloss or balm) but in a moment of madness bought a bright red lipstick and put in on.

I keep catching sight of myself in the window and think I look very strange.

My daughter is going to laugh at me, I know.

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IceNoSlice · 29/01/2013 17:55

Right, you've all convinced me to give it another shot. I'm going to wander by the Mac counter and ask them about lipstick.

notMarlene · 29/01/2013 18:23

That sounds nice coffee - unfortunately frantic googling has as yet to reveal a swatch Confused

TBH THe only reason I actually want to get a couple more colours is to have the joy of putting red on when I haven't worn it for a while. My nearest mac counter is a few hours away but rumor has it that we might need to go to that particular city this weekend. Yay.

coffeeinbed · 29/01/2013 18:26

Sorry.
It's gone forever to the big beauty counter in the Sky....
I'm hanging on to the last bits of mine.
If anyone can help with a substitute, I shall be very grateful.

ginhag · 29/01/2013 18:27

I look like the joker in red lipstick. Don't think anyone would laugh though, they'd be too busy trembling in terror that I might be going to eat them.

I have a very big mouth.

notMarlene · 29/01/2013 19:59

Bet you don't ginhag. A darker would would make it look smaller if you're worried about looking lik ehim. TBH I worry more about looking like Robert Smith.

coffee - fuck. I think I'd go into a genuine panic if my favourite was discontinued

After an exhaustive search a wee google...

Word is that Edward Bess Eternal Passion is a reasonable dupe for Flaming Dust (swatches and review here). here and here.

They say NARS Manhunt is like Flaming Dust but minus shimmer not quite as sheer. Apparently it looks red in the tube but is pinky. Also that Clinique's Almost Lipstick Ruby Melt is similar but less daring (I don't know what that would mean but maybe you do?).

coffeeinbed · 29/01/2013 20:10

I know..I love that lipstick.

Not sure about manhunt, I think I've tried it. Hmm
Will try the Edward bess one.

coffeeinbed · 29/01/2013 20:14

from the swatches Eternal Passion looks closer.
Manhunt is redder.

notMarlene · 29/01/2013 20:18

Yeah, is odd to try and work it out without seeing a swatch of the original. Also, the whole dupe thing awfully subjective - whats a good dupe for a colour on one person can easy come up a fail on another.

coffeeinbed · 29/01/2013 20:22

An SA told me "Just find something new you like" so I think I'll go buy Dior Bellisima.
(and then they will discontinue it as well and so on..)
I think I know my way round a Nars counter better than the some SA's there.

motherinferior · 29/01/2013 20:27

Try Bourjois Sweet Kisses reds - the Rouge Glamour is a nice red in the style of Bobbi Brown Burnt Red (but much cheaper). I like Revlon Really Red too. And am also experimenting with No7s Love Red, which goes a bit pinky but is very good under artificial light.

InNeedOfBrandy · 29/01/2013 20:29

I really really really want to wear red lippy, but I'm a ginge without blonde highlights atm and I really don't think it will suit me. Looks lovely on blondes and brunettes Envy

notMarlene · 29/01/2013 20:38

"Just find something new you like" is some of the most reasonable, unreasonable advice I've heard in a while Grin

Have you tried MUA, I thinkt ehy have some fuchsia ish reds.

LemonBreeland · 29/01/2013 20:40

Iam so glad that I am not the only person who feels like I'm pretending to be a grown up when I wear red lippy. I wish I had the confidence to just rock it.

notMarlene · 29/01/2013 20:41

Hey Dollface is a readhead and a big fan of red lips, might be worth a rummage.

ComeAlongPond · 29/01/2013 20:43

With this yellow/blue thing, how do you know whether a blue based red or a yellow based red suits you?

I bought a red lipstick today and I think it looks nice but I might be deluded. It's one of the Maybelline super stay things in cherry pie here.

ginhag · 29/01/2013 20:48

notMarlene nothing would make it look smaller, except viewing it from space without your specs on. Honestly, dark, bright, whatever, if I wear red lipstick grown men children cry.

Fanks tho :)

coffeeinbed · 29/01/2013 20:48

Clarins will have a range out, just red lipstick.
(or I might be imagining that)
Will look at MUA.
I do love a good red - I probably nave a dozen or so. I never wear much else though, I mean on eyes or blush.
And it's a winter thing - can't wear it with a tan.

ginhag · 29/01/2013 20:50

I wear that Vaseline stuff that tastes like cheap roses. Am all class, me.

Can you tell that I don't tend to frequent Style and Beauty?

notMarlene · 29/01/2013 20:50

coffee, have you tried Ruby Woo? A dab with a fingertip gives a lovely sheer colour. There's a massive choice of other (mac) reds - but another excellent thing about RW is that it's such an established classic that it's highly unlikely to be discontinued in our lifetime . In an case, it survived the culling of the rest of their Retro Matte range years ago.

notMarlene · 29/01/2013 20:51

Fuck I sound like I'm tryin gto push crack

notMarlene · 29/01/2013 20:51

Ooh, rosebud salve? That's proper S&B poncey, no?

ginhag · 29/01/2013 20:52

I WANT A NOTMARLENE-OVER!!!!

:)

ginhag · 29/01/2013 20:52

and some crack while you're at it ta.

coffeeinbed · 29/01/2013 20:54

Blimey you crack pusher!
You're on a mission!
I don't get on with Ruby Woo. A bit too dense and dry.

coffeeinbed · 29/01/2013 20:56

Gin try what Lisa Eldridge did in her last video - red underneath, nude on top.
to ease you in...