Grown-up hair ascessories

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Could you stylish people please help me find some hair ascessories? I am way too old to shop in Claire's. Boots are dull. I just want something that doesn't look cheap and tatty. Any ideas?

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I'm 45, I don't want a Mum bob, but some way of putting my mop back or up would great.

My hair is always bundled up in Primark bobby pins (40 for £1!) and either a bandana or a hair flower from places like this
But I'm aware my mop is not for everyone

H and m do some good stuff. Otherwise get yourself some spin pins and do it in a messy bun. There's loads of tutorials on you tube or Pinterest.