I hate all the twisty twisty and the neckine. It doesn't look that good on the model either. I think you would need to be pretty sticklike.
You need to take a good friend shopping and try loads of stuff on.
That said it has, in all honesty, taken me four years after having dd to properly get my sense of 'me' back and this is the first year I have enjoyed wearing stuff again and feel like I have remembered what I like. The last four years have been a bizarre wilderness of Boden prints 