thanks for all the ideas since i was here last. so a slight difference of opinion from the evening posters!
mewkins - no, ive only seen it on the website. i didnt know neoprene was wetsuit fabric?? not so sure about it now.
remus - it totally doesnt have to be that dress. i was just looking on the DP website as they have tonnes of reasonably priced dresses. im a curvy size 10 , 5"3, blonde , 33 - if you have any ideas!!