I really need some help with some holiday essentials. Going to Thailand next weekend and have nothing to wear. I am not girly, I am casual, tall and can't stand my knees or upper arms. T shirts are ok but vests are not unless something over them. Since I have put on weight I find it really hard to make good choices with clothes and gravitate towards linen drawstring trousers and baggy linen shirts which make me look bigger. I have an 8 year old and 5 year old who would love me to stop moaning about what to wear!
I see stylish larger women all the time so I know it's possible. Any advise greatly appreciated.