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Dress me! I'm going to be a frumpy 30 year old otherwise...

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heartonsleeve · 01/03/2012 19:55

Okay - first off, please be gentle with me. I lurk here a lot, but never had the guts to post yet. However, I have finally decided I'm going shopping this weekend, and could do with some tips.

About me: I'm 29 and a half, 5'3", just over 7 stone (have always been underweight), reasonably well proportioned but slightly bottom heavier, skinny arms and legs, low maintenance and in danger of becoming completely frumpy.

I work in an office and feel like the least well put together (dress-wise) there - my colleagues range from 22 - 60.

I really want to update my work wardrobe, but don't have a huge amount to spend. I usually wear black trousers, a blouse (usually white) and a jumper/cardi (the £7 cheap ones from supermarkets). I like my trousers baggier rather than tighter, my blouses to be fitted and untucked, and don't have any colour preferences. The few patterned things I own are small prints rather than large.

If I have meetings at work I wear a dress. I have one Next shift style dress, which I think looks okay, a couple of jersey drapey dresses, a cheap light slightly empire line style sleeveless dress and a button through fitted shirt dress. With the dresses, I think I like the fitted ones more. Lengthwise they're all just about kneee length.

I would like to get away from the trousers, blouse & cardi look, and move to more of a dress based look. At a pinch I would do skirt and top - but don't fancy that as much.

One of my colleagues gave me some tips - try different things (ie lengths, necklines). And she suggested H&M and Primark to quickly update wardrobe and be able to maximise a mix-and-match approach to my choice. I've had a quick look at the H&M website, and see somethings there I might try, but the dresses all look a wee bit short.

So, wise S&B ladies, please can you help? Suggestions on what to look for, where to shop would be much appreciated. Thanks!

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QueenCadbury · 01/03/2012 20:35

I don't really do dresses as can never find them to fit properly (I'm long in the body) but oasis and Dorothy Perkins do lots of dresses and I know people on here often suggest asos for dresses.

Sorry can't be much more help x

QueenCadbury · 01/03/2012 20:36

I don't really do dresses as can never find them to fit properly (I'm long in the body) but oasis and Dorothy Perkins do lots of dresses and I know people on here often suggest asos for dresses.

Sorry can't be much more help x

drywhiteplease · 01/03/2012 20:43

Hi heart I'm same height as you but size 10 (you smaller) I have done so well with DP dresses this season, pick carefully and they are great and look more expensive....wear with little fitted cardi in brights....h and m have loads as do DP , with bright belt or shoes.nice !

EnjoyResponsibly · 01/03/2012 20:59

Start with a little trip to OASIS or Zara, they've both got loads of lovely stuff.

heartonsleeve · 01/03/2012 21:22

Thanks for your help - yes, the girls at work mentioned Zara and Dotty P's. Actually, I was just looking at the 'I'm a teacher and need a capsule wardrobe' thread, and resolved to go to DP's.

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ATruthUniversallyAcknowledged · 01/03/2012 21:28

Haha, I'm the teacher and was also looking at your thread. Hello! I'll steal all the ideas people give you and you can steal all the tips they give me Grin

You're a little shorter than me so that gorgeous purple DP dress someone suggested on my thread might work. I'm scared it'll be too short for school.

heartonsleeve · 01/03/2012 21:35

I'm just trawling the DP website now - getting lots of ideas. The trouble with me is that I hate shopping. And I'm not very adventurous. I'm actually going to go tomorrow after work (most of the shops in town are open until 7 or 8), as I don't want to waste precoius weekend time!

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