It is my birthday next week, I will be 37 and am having a crisis about it, feeling fat, old, frumpy and clueless. Dh is taking me out for dinner and I would like to make an effort to look nice but don't know where to start. I'm a size 14, 5'6 - can any of you ladies suggest something suitable? Ideally something I can get online as I'm working all week.