I have got long wavy hair (generally dried straight) but unfortunately now have tufty bits around the hairline. I don't think it's too noticeable but it's thinner now and I'm worried I look a bit unkempt. Shall I cut to just below shoulder length or would this make the tufty bits more noticeable? Thinking of TTC baby no 2 in next few months so need a long term plan, will I be left with hair that's 3 different lengths?!!