HELP IM 47 AND RECENTLY GAINED WEIGHT DUE TO HYSTERECTOMY/CHRISTMAS EXCESSES LACK OF EXERCISE.Im size 14/16 a cello or apple shape probably. I dont like my tummy area but my legs are ok. Ive been invited to a 50th party at a pub. This group of friends are casual and many wear jeans. I cant wear jeans I find them uncomfy and dont like myself in them. I like skirts / trousers or dresses but definately no heels. I cant walk in them and my back cramps if I do. So without heels how can one appear glamorous or stylish? I currently only have 3 outfits that fit in the whole of my wardrobe so any help with outfit ideas would be good. I am deep autumn coloring so no beige or white. I look good in dark brown, black, purple, red and greens. I dont mind colour or black just want to look good. I feel Ive lost my style not sure what it is and how to develop it . Any good advice appreciated waiting in anticipationj.