Im 47 and dress casually most of the time. Im size 14 /16 and recently gained weight due to hysterectomy / christmas excessses and lack of exercise!! I struggle with what to wear for a night out. I never know what to wear I rarely go out in the evening so this area of my wardrobe is depleted. Ive been invited to a 50th party at a pub, most people in this set of friends are casual jeans etc. I cant wear jeans they feel uncomfy and I dont like how I look in them. I am 5ft 7 and probably cello or more apple shape I think /I dont like my tummy area but my legs are ok . I dont mind skirts dresses or trousers but definately cant wear heels as my back goes into cramp with them so its hard to look glamorous. I feel i dont know my style or even what I like as Ive always been casual . Would like to be more stylish /glamorous but dont know how . Im deep autumn colouring so those colours suite me definately no beige or white. I look good in red, purple ,deep brown, black and greens. Can anyone help me find a going out outfit or any other clothing that may suit as i only have 2 trousers and one skirt with tops to match at the moment. I hope you stylish folks can help . waiting in anticipation.