Am going out in a few weeks for a friends birthday, nights out in my life are very few and far between, we are going for a meal and then there is a cabaret show and I have nothing to wear. I am 46, pale skin dark hair 5ft 3 and a size 12 but have a very fat wobbly stomache which I hate and fat knees. i quite like some of the dresses with sheer or lace long sleeves but they seem to stop a bit shorter than I would like, any help /ideas please......... - am thinking black and will probalby end up wearing it Christmas/New years Eve thanks