Can you please vote on these shrugs please and I need help with shoes.

[SnugglyDuckling]

Feb wedding.

Am wearing this dress

but which bolero?

navy

or

silver?

And what shall I do shoe wise considering I can't walk in heels and will have alot of children to run after??

Thanks

Im not keep on either (dont shoot me down) but I love the dress.

but I need something to cover up a bit with. It'll be freezing and I don't like my arms.

bump!

its an evening do?
dresses are a bit slinky for the day imo

its a wedding in hotel at 4pm, dinner and evening reception

shit, please dont say that ive bouht it and cant return it now and its the first thing ive bought in ages :(