I look so fat! Need bra help for saggy boobs and I'm starting to hate my body thread :(

[moonstorm]

So I've just had dh take some photos of myself to have a look at a wedding outfit I'm wearing. I'm now having serious doubts.

I think I look ok in the mirror, but in the photo: my head is too small (an illusion due to the extra weight, I think), my ginormous (but used to be pert) bfing boobs are so low and seem to hang outwards I was aming for 'in and up' how did I get 'down and out'??? (I had myself properly measured as well and have Hot Milk bras).

All that is noticeable are my big saggy boobs, found tummy and small head. I bought some comtrol underwear, but istead of holding in and making me slimmer, they just reposition the fat..

How did I get like this? I have lost 7.5 kg since the end of February, yet I look just as bad - just flabby. I have another 7 kg to go - I am 5'3 and 67kg and my aim is 59 kg, so I shouldn't be surprised...

So much for going back to work and wowing them with my svelte (sp?) figure...How can I salvage this for the wedding???

[fed up and fat emoticon]

Thank you for the link Scaredycat3000 but unfortunately, no. I'm a 32K. I think that is the largest backsize to cupsize differential available in any nursing bra ever, anywhere. I spent the last weeks of my pregnancy in a total panic that my boobs would get larger when my milk came in and that I'd never have anything to fit me. Thank god they didn't. :)

ps Baroness my was not to mock your not being able to find a bra, it was just joining in with your

Oh, I didn't feel mocked. I sat preening that you'd found my comment funny. Besides, even when not BF I've always been blessed bloody enormous in the chest department and have become immune to mocking so wouldn't even notice if someone did. unless I was 16 again and you were a boy I fancied

have you considered making a large papiermache head and wearing really large accessories to the wedding?
If you did you still wouldn't have the weirdest things on I'll bet...weddings are usually a style free zone. Round up your bazookas and have fun

please be happy with your amazing wondrous baby producing and feeding body.you are a goddess for goodness sake