Been on and off the dating scene for a bit and have decided that maybe I should make an effort for a first date these days. I'm usually a jeans and t-shirt type of gal at home but I do make a bit more of an effort at work (trousers/cardies etc) and can scrub up alright for a night out in a dress etc but struggle with the inbetween - looking smart and 'together' type of look but not over the top or too dressed down. Suggestions from you guys who are obv all swish and 'know' about these things would help.
Am a bit of a short arsed chubster - size 16 and 5' 2" - which blonde, bobbed hair and pale vampirish complexion. Meeting a guy Wednesday for lunch so anything appreciated!