I am due to be a bridesmaid this summer, 5 or 6 weeks after giving birth to DC2.
The dress has duly been chosen - blue, very thin spaghetti straps/strapless - other bridesmaids will be strapless but there is option to use straps to make me feel more secure. I think I'll be able to breastfeed in it (obviously can't try it on as I am currently pregnant)...
Have been given carte blanche to accessorise myself, as long as it is silver.
So I need some kind of silvery wrap/ shrug-type thing so that when I am feeding it is as discreetly as possible - also need some kind of bra solution - strapless probably, that is compatible with frequent breastfeeding and massive , possibly leaky breasts (oh, the glamour!). Planning on wearing Lilypadz instead of normal breast pads, unless the general consensus is this is a bad idea.
Also need co-ordinating silver shoes - was thinking maybe ballet flats or flat sandals. Don't want heels.
I am paying myself, can't afford to spend too much.
Thanks for any help!!