I need an outfit for a christening in (ireland)so colder and possible rain for departure on friday am.I am szi 20 on top,18 waist and I need to be relaxed as I have several small children even though I am old(44)so no fatty mutton.I havent been able to go shopping as I have been ill so a bit frantic.This is the first time I have posted .I am a definite apple shape with no waist,well a chocolate one actually!