I have finally got to the stage of being able to think Bugger It All and:
Have stopped colouring my hair
Have had a crop
Have found myself some comfortable clothes which I am happy with- leggings with tunics and Fly London Mol boots, Birkies, Jersey dresses, White Stuff skirts and cardies.
Have spent serious money on eye cream!
Soooo comfortable so easy and no shitting about with aching feet, grey roots or gazillions of hair products.
I feel fabulous.