Powder eyeliner - use any eyeshadow with a flat slanted brush. Easy as pie and you can get more choice of colours.
Lips, well, it's hard to tell without seeing you face to face but I'd say coral tones would be nice or pinks which are more coral or peach toned than blue toned/purply pink.
I've heard not so favourable reviews of Millionize lashes but I've not used it myself. I like Max Factor False Lash Effect.