Corsets, girdles and low back bras help

[shinybaubles]

Help I am getting married in December and the lovely woman who altered ny dress told me to buy a girdle - not only does it hold you in but makes your posture look better. So any recommendations please .
I need as much pulling in help as I can get .
Also in need of a low back bra but preferably with straps - trusty M&S has nothing - more advice needed.
Have also seen the esbelt corset - will this work as a girdle?
And what are spanx tights like?
Please can someone point me in the right direction
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There are some lovely ones here stockings hq and Playful Promises has some very pretty retro styles too - I have a chemise with suspenders that gives a very good line that I got from them.

Thanks for the link higgle, I must say my eyes were watering at the thought of squeezing myself into some of those creations but needs must.

For my wedding, I had bra strap extenders from Figleaves called 'low back bra converters' that hook on to a normal bra and pull them down. Worked a treat!

I have a function to go to next month with a very clingy low backed dress. I can't go braless and need something to hold in my tummy a bit, and the only thing I can find online so far is this scary looking thing
Cannot deal with a wedgie though so the search continues for me too...

Sorry about the delay in replying have had internet problems.
Biscuitbreaker - yes I just came across those also - I think that's the way to go, thanks for recommending them.

BooBooglass - that looks likeit has the potential to painfully wrong . But it would solve all my problems in one go - not sure if I amm brave enough.