Since having 2 kids (one natural birth, one CS), I cannot wear the same sort of pants as I used to. Anything edged with thick elastic is so uncomfortable. I have so far only discovered these as comfy: here but once they've been worn and washed a few times, they look really awful (the fine elastic starts hanging out of the lace and the white ones turn grey really quickly). If I ever had an accident, the medics would probably give DH words of sympathy not only for the trauma but for being married to a raggedy-pants-wearing-frump! Double 
Can anyone suggest any decent, comfy, feminine pants that don't make you feel like crap?