Be kind, I'm a S&B virgin. This is the dress I am getting married in....

[BabyValentine]

I will be about 20 weeks pregnant. I have bought this dress

And I have black heels which I can walk in. The wedding is (secret) registry office in about a month, so it could be a little chilly. But obviously isn't in the slightest bit traditional, or posh. Only the 3 of us will be there, me, DF and DD

My question is, oh stylish Mners, what kind of cardigan should I get? Crew-neck? What length? And I am not afraid of colour (I like jewel-like shades, nothing wishy-washy), but obviously my shoes will be black. Does that matter? Help...

I would get a wrap and not a cardi or it will look like you are getting wed in a dress and cardi!!

Wraps are more dramatic!

Good point, collision! Although if it didn't offend DF so much, I'd be getting married in a pair of jeans.

I do have a turquoise wrap knocking about somewhere

You are getting married- don't wear a cardigan.

You need this

How about this?

loads in Mango

I love the ASOS petal shrug! Beautiful and would look amazing with the dress - go buy!

Would this be appropriate :

Ooh I like that ChoCHoSan - very understated but classy.

Yes, I think it's important to maintain an air of sophistication at such events.

I agree, the dress is nice and smart but a wrap would definitely make it feel more glam. I would go for a wrap thats got a touch of metallic to it and then wear matching shoes. If you don't fancy a wrap, then how about a cute cropped jacket?

Amy

What's wrong with looking like you're getting married in a dress and cardi if you are actually getting married in a dress and cardi?

I know I know, I have no idea...

Hello Norkily!

Where have you been? Sorry about the anti-cardi stance but, I'm committed to the cause

Hello, been stupidly busy with work in evenings which has cut into MN time . Have just posted thread asking for opinions on 3 dresses if you wouldn't mind popping over there and telling me what you think?

Cardi stance may affect my own decisions there too.

Thanks everyone, especially ChoCho.

The ASOS petal shrug looks like a possibilty. And I'm grateful for the cardi-support Norkily, as I said, the wedding will be a very small affair, followed by a pub lunch and 4 hours in the car, so I'm not overly fussed with glamour!

Good luck BabyV, and have a fabulous wedding!

i love the dress. i would go for a wrap to.
just a thought but don't you need a witness for your wedding?

Thanks, ChoCho

Apparently we can poach a couple of ladies from the estate agents opposite the Registry Office; they have a rota, so it must be a regular occurance!

What about this ?

Not sure if I'm a feather-girl though. Perhaps the petals would be better. Mmmm.

Oh, sorry, mermaid - just realised that's your 2nd choice.

This is nice too... Ivory Shrug

half way between a cardi and a jacket here

Pleeeease buy the feathery one that tethersend linked to. I love it

Good luck for the big day.

I love the sound of your wedding by the way!