I have blonde highlighted hair that is grown out about an inch and is natural underneath. I have been umming and aaahing about having it natural and in good condition (i have no grey) but everyone i know says blonde suits me. My feeling is that i am looking for a more sophisticated look and blonde highlights are sooooooooo dated - especially on a 40 yr old. Anyway,any advice appreciated. I have cool colouring with very large blue/grey eyes. Oh yes my appt is booked at the hairdressers for sat - thnks.