ok be gentle with me. I need something to wear for a funeral on Saturday. I have lost 6 stone since last May going from a too small in 28 to a 16/18/20 depending on fit/ shop/ style. Anything that fits me is summer holiday/ outfit for a wedding/ jeans and t shirt etc., so on top of feeling shaky about having to go to a funeral of a friend who has died suddenly and far too early, I am obsessing about what to wear. I ran around House of Fraser in a panic earlier and bought this; I wanted something understated that I would wear again and definately not black, but this was the only thing I liked/ it fitted. So reassure me that it's ok and/ or advise me how to accessorise, or add a colour to tone it down? If fits well, is flattering but just seems very black!