Had a crazy weekend and this just topped it off.
Basically due to have DSC over the weekend (3 nights every week, one week during the week and the next over the weekend).
My husband has been feeling unwell for a while and then on Thursday was rushed to hospital (sepsis, he's getting much better thankfully) the day that DSC were due to come.
I messaged their Mum on FB as I don't have her number and told her the kids wouldn't be able to come unfortunately and she did nothing but peck my head all weekend about me having them or me sorting something out (she does work over the weekend sometimes).
H doesn't have family round here so I had no one else to ask. My parents had our DC overnight two nights so I could go and see him so not even like our DC were there either.
AIBU to think that in extreme circumstances you need to sort your children out?!
He wasn't fobbing it off, he literally couldn't have in that moment sorted anything else. I was panicking and stressed the first couple of days too and didn't even have my own DC with me because it was too much.
Things have calmed down today and yesterday and the more I think about it the more pissed off I am.
If it was her there would be no question that H would do what was needed to have the children.