Not sure whether this fits here....looking for some advice on splitting costs (no judgement on the fact that we have separate finances please).
Husband has two kids, one away at uni. His youngest is with us 3 days a week. I have one daughter who is about to go to uni. When his eldest was at home my husband paid 60% of food costs to reflect the fact that he has more than one child. We then moved to 50/50 when eldest went to uni. My question is whether I should ask him to move back to 60/40? It might also be relevant that I'm paying half of daughter's rent whilst at uni, whilst he's paying nothing for his son as he got max loans due to his mum's salary and her house being classed as his main residence. So money will be a bit tighter for me than it has been.